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Love Vs Lie Detector

Posted on | August 20, 2009 | Comments

“So do you actually love him?”

She thinks, agonizes, sweats.

So does he.

An audience of a zillion watches with bated breath.

Hold it.

What is she sweating for?

Trust is frail.

It can break at the slightest poke.

Especially in times of greater individual insecurity than ever before.

What was she agonizing over?

If she actually loved him, why was she worried?

Because the machine’s endorsement of her love was critical in the social context?

What was he agonizing over?

That a “lie” would brand him wrong, never mind what the truth was?

No, don’t expect any links to articles on the veracity of lie detector tests in this post.

I actually don’t care if the lady in question actually loved the man in question or not.

I have a question.

Do programs today operate independently?

Is the social impact they have not a part of the criteria of selection?

This is not a TRP argument.

That’s business.

As a business target, a channel’s job is to gain a greater audience, hence provide a bigger/richer target audience, and hence invite bigger advertising investment.

But a channel cannot ignore the fact that it has a social context too.

Sure, a condom brand’s future sales could lie in it promoting irrational and promiscuous sex.

But it doesn’t work that way.

I have a problem with Sach Ka Saamana.

It’s selfishly irresponsible.

Yes, every contestant is an adult, who probably signed a 40 page agreement before even appearing on the show.

But who are we fooling?

A contestant?

The poor bloke or lady doesn’t know what will hit him/her before it actually does.

Any mass media medium HAS to operate while being cognizant of the impact it will have.

You cannot transfer the responsibility on to the participant.

In any case, most participants who brave terribly intrusive questions actually declare that they desperately need the money.

Like the lady in question tonight.

Individuals are weak, foolish, susceptible and gullible.

Channels are not.

Tonight’s episode, where the young lady, even though she did it of her own free will, was rather saddening – it painted a rather sad picture of the channel and of us, the viewers, who gave the channel reason to telecast such stuff.

I, at a point, did NOT want to know of her personal life anymore.

I hated the sight of her agonizing over that single question.

And her man as well.

The machine can take a flying ****.

Why should we even hear a human subject another human to this crap?

PS:

On a rather unscientific count : enough has been said about love being the most misunderstood emotion of all times.

How do we expect a machine to understand, diagnose and rule a verdict on it?

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  • Bang on. 'Do you love him?' is a question so open to interpretation, it's not funny. it depends on what the lady perceives as love. It depends on what the guy on the receiving end -- her husband -- perceives as love. And while these two may be entirely different definitions, what the viewer perceives to be love might be a third thing altogether.

    Human beings are emotional, and as emotions cannot be quantified, let's just say essay-type questions work better for us than multiple-choice, huh??

    Sometimes TV channels forget the line between sensational and insensitive.
  • Hey Sanjeev - appreciate the sentiment and the fact that you took time out to post it here.
    I also read your post - at least you have a clear point of view.
    As far as my personal opinion goes, I do not like the fact that Sach Ka Saamana keeps touting the "participant is adult and knows what he/she is walking into" premise constantly.
    Yes, there is tremendous hypocrisy around - and we need to make our own choices.
  • sanjeev
    Maybe we are taking this social drive and protectism too far. Maybe there is a logic in what you say. Maybe she was pressurised for the money. maybe-- maybe channel should see what they telecast... maybe we should just change the channel on this... and a lower TRP would be the right way to send the signal.

    Is 72 hour pill at 10 Am a right ad--- is smoking and kissing OK in films. everyone has a right for the impression and their view point... I respect yours...

    what I felt is at
    http://sanjeevkotnala.blog.co.in/2009/07/24/sac...
  • lol - good to see you stop by, Arcopol.
  • arcopol
    Bang on. And for once, the advertiser's object of obsession is the polygraph machine, and not the TAM peoplemeter boxes.
  • Kusum Jauhari
    Extremely pleased with your mature thinking, capability to react and express yourself.
  • Agree wholeheartedly Pushkaraj.
  • The program is a big piece of nonsense and I am glad I have only seen about 5 minutes of it. The big, BIG issue that gullible viewers don't realize is that lie detectors have nothing to do whatsoever with lies (or truths, for that matter). A lie told with complete confidence (read brazenness) cannot be detected as a lie by the machine. On the other hand, a truth being told by someone who is simply tense or nervous can be categorized as a lie by the same machine.
    The difference between a truth and a lie hinges on the qualities of integrity and honesty, not a piece of electrical circuit and a graph paper.
    Most of all, human dignity is something that a mindless TV anchor cannot, and should not, tamper with.
  • @trehan happy to have you here buddy - look forward to more commenting from you
    @kajal yup :-)
    @Ajay - I don't want to watch it anymore, either - so that makes two of us :-)
    @N2N most of the people are going back with no money, just a lot of 'truths' to deal with...
  • Voyeurism, is fast becoming an opiate of the masses, and the truth shall set you free, actually now you can now bank on it! I say let them be... after all money in the right doses is very soothing on relationships, I am told. :)
  • ajay_ks
    Rahul,
    I am becoming fan of your thoughful articles and your are very much right here about the selfishness of the channel to promote such programs. Most of the episode of this program ask questions which will be difficult to answer and I don't know whether there is any right answer to such questions (Love, telling lie etc.).
    I don't think media business houses are taking care of their social responsibility seriously and they are only interested in increasing thier TRP or business. There most convenient excuse for them is that if you don't like the program, switch the channel and I am already doing that. I hardly watch this program after some initial episodes.
  • Kaj
    v interesting thought Rahul. you know what they say - if we all told the truth all the time, we'd be left without any friends (or lovers!) I get that it's telly and twisted 'entertainment' for some - but somewhat destructive. Then again, perhaps the ppl going on the show have a deathwish. or as you said, need the cash?

    Me - sugarcoat the truth, humour the folks - more peaceful existence. If we told each client the truth, each time - we'd all be outta jobs right?!
  • Right on. Nailed it. :-)
  • you are right about the program its 'selfishly irresponsible'. These TRP driven channels are putting people in uncomfortable and stressful situations; asking them questions (on love, fidelity, jealousy etc. etc.); and then packaging those answers in the name of Reality TV for the pure greed. Its disgraceful.
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